What’s in your “Romance” Toolkit?

AdeOla Crystiana Fadumiye
3 min readSep 29, 2020

This theme for this month humbled me and I am still sitting with my discovery.

I reached out to seven (7) women about sharing a romance tool and the running theme was:

I have nothing to add to the conversation on romance…there is not much going on in our household in that area. It doesn’t feel like romance around here, and it comes and goes. Its not particularly a term I can say I immediately identify with.

The responses scared me and left a sinking feeling within me…one I haven’t made a judgement call about yet.

Two/three words sums it all up for me. They are WORK and REALITY CHECK!

So for this month’s theme, Romance, a feeling of excitement and mystery associated with love, we got one amazing share and I plan to adopt this tool in my own relationship when it gets here lol!

Vanetta Morrison — Writer | Counsellor | Coach | Emotional Wealth Strategist , The Blueprint Way

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AdeOla Crystiana Fadumiye

Writer + Editor. Musings on Faith, Feminism & Entrepreneurship | My life’s broken pieces sprinkled w/ silver lining perspectives @ http://www.adeolafadumiye.com